three going on 13?!

we do sunday night dinners with the neighbors downstairs. sometimes his brothers and their wifes come too.
so, we're downstairs talking after dinner, and elizabeth comes and asks me for some water and ice. i told her that she would have to ask brent, the guy downstairs. in true elizabeth fashion, she whines that she can't. then she noticed that there was a pen on one of the side tables, and takes it over to brent. she hands it too him and says that it's his. they have a short conversation about the color being blue, and then she says she wants some water and ice. this is not something that she should have knowledge of at 3 years of age! this is something that preteen and teenagers do, not 3 year olds. we had a good laugh about it though. i think when she starts dating, we may need to invest in a gun!